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A mannequin mentioned she was faraway from her pal’s wedding ceremony after trying too good in a bridesmaid costume.
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Alena Yildiz informed Insider the bride selected the costume however modified her thoughts after seeing a video of it.
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“One other ladies’s magnificence would not make your magnificence fade,” she mentioned.
A girl who was set to be a bridesmaid in her shut pal’s wedding ceremony mentioned she was uninvited after trying “too good” within the costume that the bride selected for her.
Alena Yildiz, a 21-year-old mannequin in Heidelberg, Germany, initially took to TikTok earlier this month to share the story along with her viewers of greater than 170,000 followers.
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In a video posted on December 13, which had over 10 million views on the time of writing, she wrote: “My shut pal uninvited me to her wedding ceremony as a result of she thought I regarded too good within the costume she selected for me.” The video continued with photographs of Yildiz within the costume with the caption, “Nonetheless took some fireplace pics in it although.”
Yildiz informed Insider she was as a result of be a bridesmaid on the wedding ceremony in early December alongside 5 different ladies earlier than her pal mentioned she felt upstaged. “That is why she selected such an extravagant costume for me — all of our different buddies wore extravagant clothes as nicely, however she solely had an issue with me,” she mentioned.
Yildiz mentioned the blue and tan embellished costume designed by Albina Dyla price her 1,200 euros, or about $1,360, with every bridesmaid paying for her personal outfit. The tulle costume had a corset with a mermaid neckline and leaf detailing, in addition to a thigh-high aspect slit.
The mannequin mentioned she despatched a video of herself carrying the costume to the bride, whose identification Yildiz mentioned she did not need to disclose, shortly earlier than the marriage. “She referred to as me and informed me about her insecurities with my costume — that it was too attention-grabbing,” Yildiz mentioned.
“She was very offended about the entire scenario and ended up uninviting me after the decision. We acquired right into a combat as a result of it made no sense to me since she selected that costume herself,” she mentioned. Yildiz added that she thought the bride ought to have chosen a special costume if she have been nervous.
With little time to discover a new costume, and having argued along with her pal, Yildiz did not attend the ceremony, she mentioned. She added that whereas she was not buddies with the bride, shedding her had been unhappy. “It made me really feel like I had no worth to her as a pal,” she mentioned.
“We talked about her wedding ceremony for years, and I used to be so completely satisfied for my pal to lastly be with the love of her life and to have a good time along with her,” Yildiz mentioned. She added that the bride referred to as her after seeing the TikTok video, and so they argued additional.
Yildiz acknowledged that brides have each proper to make requests, akin to asking that nobody else put on white to the marriage, however she urged others to correctly talk their guidelines to keep away from disagreements akin to this one. She added that emotions of competitors or jealousy solely serve to create “poisonous” relationships.
“One other ladies’s magnificence would not make your magnificence fade, and I want extra folks would perceive that and be assured,” she mentioned.
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